If she texts you about events that are way out in the future, she might want you to accompany her and is telling you to keep your calendar free...for her. Or did she do it just to inform me she doesn't like it and still likes me? Then you are the equivalent of dirt. It sounds like he is a friend. I went out clubbing with her and she was quite physical, touching and hugging and taking pictures. But even 20min to an hour. She interrogates me a lot of times. One was of her beautiful self from the neck up, the second was her from the neck down and she was in really nice clothes and the other was her with a friend and she drew all over her friends face. But the huge problem is.. She has a boyfriend.. and I know it sounds horrible that I'm crushing on a girl that's taken, but it's not the eaisest to get over someone. He said If you not answering me is funny...I'm not amused. Relationships are not determined by texting, but text messages can still be indicators of the level of interest two people have in each other. If she posts pictures on her Instagram, count the amount that are related to you. Life is short. A guy I been texting for a couple of months now. She said okay thanks followed by a golden hands in prayer. Hi Andrea, met a girl at a party, she asks for my snapchat, didn't talk to her for a month or so. Yes, he likes you. And the other instance i was in class and she was teasing me and sent me a picture of her bed saying its comfertable while im in class busting my ass haha does she like me? and it's been 9-10 since we saw each other and chatting face to face. Also Question: If she face times you a lot does that mean she likes you? What does it mean when your crush flicks your back? If I stretch out my right arm as I type, I can pluck from my shelves the two volumes of the Shorter Oxford English Dictionary We would both vent to each other, she has her boyfriend issues, i have abuse issues, were like personal counselors she said. Is she just asking for directions, or something more? I invited her to an evet and accepted to go with me. This sounds like a nice guy to have as a friend. Girls are more sensitive in some ways about language, so consider the possible effect of an innocent innuendo about 5Xs before sending. Is he making sure you in particular laugh, or is he trying to get a crowd to laugh? Girls often text differently from their male counterparts. So I started texting him, he says he’s not a phone person but sometimes doesn’t responds to my text. At least, there shouldn't be a noticeable one-sided texter. Its more random rather than something usual, always after I wish her a nice trip or starting a conversation. Be open minded, say you are willing to learn, and the last thing you want to do is hurt her feelings. Thank you for your time and for making the article! I looked up her profile, she is beautiful no doubt about it, but the thing that was more important was her personality. We have the most amazing connection. can someone tell me what does that really mean. But have my doubts. After the 3rd time, which was around 2 weeks ago, she started talk to me WAY more often. I used talking to my besty daily . She writes on topics from interior design, relationships, ghosts, to anything creative. heh.. Sending pictures is pretty flirtatious. She told me she hanged out with someone yesterday (I beleive a guy) and she told me she would tell me sometime on the week when she could spend time with me. I got her to believe me that I don't like her but I think she is having second thoughts because I rarely talk to her now. They have had numerous issues and sleeps on couch most nights. Btw I don't like somebody and most of these signs are things I do but I like somebody else. He sends you pictures to make you laugh—like animals, things from movies, his shoes. Guys sometimes talk about the girls they like to the girl they really like; girls don't really do that. BTW, we had another chat marathon 5 hrs with about 200 back-n-forth while I was driving, the chat ended with me hinting her that I want to be with her, and she tricked/cajoled me to explicitly tell her what the hint means, and I cracked, and told her I want to be with her (PG 13). Everything I've researched adds up she definitely like me. If she has lots of pictures with everyone, then this isn't as accurate. Don't just dismiss her too quickly. He is starting to open up with his chance of advancement or a career move. Whenever we talk, I usually start the convo. I think you guys have a strong enough friendship that you can talk to her and tell her that you do have feelings for her, and that it is okay if she does not, whether she ever does or eventually does.... you are there for her. Just because he is spending a lot of time on social media does not correlate to how much time and how quickly he is responding to you. Sometimes this is what women are really feeling and they try to tone it down so you won't run away. Recently I told him I miss him, not expecting anythin' in return. Maria Cecilia from Philippines on December 11, 2017: YOu are right the more independent a woman is the more she becomes attractive. She'd constantly talk about her family, we'd constantly send selfies back and forth, she'd send pictures of her pets, and she was always excited in her texts. Is he genuinely busy or just being hot and cold? He might have thought the fun and flirting was continuing. Do I wait? It's the right amount of speed for you. If she texts you back with a picture of something you gave her with smiley faces, she's trying to affirm that she likes you back, and she appreciates your gift. a guy opens hangouts just for the sake of me ....he even said that i am his friend but he never talked to me .........does it mean he had a crush on me. Yesterday he sent one message which leads me to today. I really cant tell because he said that he has a problem with flirting with every one on accident. So there is this girl that I like and idk if she likes me back. Looking at the messages he seems interested, but looking at how long it takes I feel like he might just be trying to be polite. People have lots of things they are doing, often cultivating a social profile is different than a text conversation. he's my childhood friend, we used to play together when i am at his house. He went running yesterday and I texted him “ “don’t forget the sunscreen”.To that he also answered Ha ha. Try to respect that vulnerability and act worthy of her trust. or she just wants to be my friend? The more the better. Two days later (yesterday) middle of the night, I get a anger-filled message from her wanting an explanation about my initial blunder, I apologized to her and told her that because I was attracted to her, I had panicked and made a boo-boo, she probably got convinced and we chatted for almost 2 hours that night before she dozed-off. he loves my mom a lot and he respects her and when i went to his house he wasn't their and when i left he said that he is sad because he didn't see my mom. Here are some tips on deciphering the timing and frequency of messages. She is very patient & calm, and that just blew me off. Does she like me based on this summary of what happened in a year. When ur with your boyfriend he tends to ignore him and only talks to you about things what does that mean? He sends you a text about a dream that he had about you. REAL WEAK. (Aladdin complimented Jasmine on her punctuality.). I told her y really liked her, she kept quiet for a short time (she didn't blushed) and finally told me that "she never said anything because I never said anything". We text through out the day but a lot. This person seems positive, so I think you should spend time around them whether they want you as a friend or a girlfriend. I have no short-term goals with this girl. I met this guy online. Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on July 01, 2017: Proposing like engagement? But then he responded and said sorry and that he just now seen the message. On the texting, last week she was very responsive, sending many mesages to my questions, even with some gaps between her messages (she texted me twice, then waited 10 minutes and texted me again). And to set up a time where he can see you. When we ft we'll joke around, laugh and talk about serious stuff. She didn't told me (specifically) I like her but I think she does. It’s a long story. These can be indicative, but sometimes girls just send drunken texts out of their ridiculousness and love for the world. I think you should keep talking to her and try to hang out again. play a big part in the lyrics. After the videos, pictures of things he would send of romantic songs, flirting and suggesting places to go. They will try to figure out some sort of pattern. Of course, a girl might trust and respect you and still only see you as a friend. Pls help I don’t know what to do. So at the end of the day, if you feel like texting, just do it. This should be your first question: what is she talking about? Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on July 26, 2018: I think he likes you. I don't think he's interested in me like that but the texting evidence leads to that conclusion. Can i say that my besty likes me or love me. If a woman is being vulnerable with you, and is truly honest, that shouldn't be taken for granted. His messages to me are always consistent, funny, slightly flirty, he asks lots of questions, makes lots of compliments, and makes plans to see me often. Do not over-text. She'd tell me things that she's never told anyone, and things she's went through in the past, and always comes to me if she's feeling sad or angry about someone. She has also left me on seen some times, and replied one word texts. A one word response from a woman is frowned upon. Then let it fizzle out if he never tries or keeps getting flaky. Relationships are not determined by texting, but text messages can still be indicators of the level of interest two people have in each other. Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on April 01, 2017: I'll try my best here to help you out. Here are some signs relating to not what she texts you, but when and how often. A little teen slut proved to be a challenging distraction. As soon as dad went out, the girl took her shorts off and took the guy’s dick out. Even when I text her very plain. . She changed her PP to one where she uses my earrings, just after I told her I wanted her to be my model. He lets you know of positive things that have happened in his life, whether over text or not, such as doing well on a test, a promotion, or having a new pet. Watch your own patience. No I'm not gay I'm straight. If she makes up a ridiculous excuse like, "I have to watch my cat tonight." I want to take it slow.". Almost all her texts end up having a laughing emoji or an lol at the end of it, sometimes even 3 plus emojis. What does it mean when a guy your talking to says your not single your all ready married and you dont even know it? In the last six months we have started spending more time together again, going for walks or out for coffee and trampolining, never as dates, just as friends. If she greets you through text in another language (in german or french)? Here are some good signs related to timing. Is she interested and only playing hard? So our text exchanges being 3 hours or 15 minutes are usually filled with deep meaningful and effortless conversation. There are some signs here that happens between us I'm just really awkward and I care alot about him but I'm not able to prove it to him without making myself seem too needy.. Know what I mean ? He uses a pet name or nickname for you. If you like her. He probably wants an excuse to chat about it with you. There is a girl with whom I use to talk on Instagram. We have not talked about personal life all that much because I wanted to keep this trend going; we do have mutual former co-worker/friends that we posted updates about and I purposely frame texts into questions and he often replies yes (or something similar) to give me the go-ahead to explain something (very polite). This could include: grabbing something to eat, going on a bike ride, going to the movies. Here are some signs to look out for. If you're a guy, it can be tough to figure out what a girl really means. If she texts you after a hangout saying that she enjoyed spending time with you, it is unlikely to just be courtesy. A general rule is: the more time she spends on a text for you, the more she cares about you and about what you think. Is she into me or not we've hung out and everything am I in the friend zone? Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on April 22, 2017: Sounds like early stages of a romance. This is a list of the characters that have appeared on 90210, an American teen drama.The series introduces Annie Wilson (Shenae Grimes) and her adopted brother Dixon (Tristan Wilds), who move from Kansas to Beverly Hills with their father Harry and mother Debbie (Lori Loughlin).The family relocated in order to care for Harry's mother Tabitha (Jessica Walter Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on November 16, 2017: Sounds flirtatious. He might be seeing you as more of a friend, considering he tells you about his rejection... and that he calls you a sister. What about length? A guy that I’ve noticed looking at me has said it was alright for me to get his number. She'll send you pictures of her animals that she thinks are cute because she hopes it'll make a positive impression, and because if she likes you, she wants you to like her animals as much as she does. Me and this girl been talking for a while now. The other day he mentioned that he wanted a gf and he said the qualifications for one and then he said like me. And what will change if you are no longer on a break. We dont really talk but last year..we always talked. With me being 100% sure that my crush likes me for me and not my body. We work at different stores for the same company therefore never actually work together. If the girl you like is sending you pictures, that's a great sign. I work with Wall Street firms. I asked the name of her company and sent me a photo of her wearing a backpack with her company's name on it. She's also still talking to me after turning me down a few weeks ago. I think I also have ADHD because I find it I think my mum said that at the doctors and my friend says that I have it. I often start the convo. Does that mean he likes me? We were still waiting when she asked me if I wanted to se her room, I obviously said yes and went to see her room. Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on July 15, 2017: Late night calls from 9pm to 2am or late night calls from 1am to 2am? I feel the depression underlying my small bits of false happiness. Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on March 26, 2017: Send her multiple hearts back. But he immediately responds to my questions if he has time everyday. Does he really likes me or he is just like oh she send me a ballon and i feel horible about that because i just kinda like her but not a lot? Girls are not as direct as guys and these seem like hot buzz words to throw to see if you react. She said that bc I'm so nice to her and always there for her, that really made her happy and made her like me.. We don't send ;) faces or send a lot of pictures (unless like snapchat), and we may not "hang out a lot" in person but we can talk for hours.. sometimes we just pull all nighters talking to one another.. She says I'm one of the few she can trust and that she doesn't know where she'd be without me.. My point is we talk all time.. You may get a few overwhelming, long-winded texts. She wants to send a positive message. Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on September 22, 2017: thanks you have helped a lot now i know where me and him stand so thanks again!!!!! I know this guy who's 9 years my jnr and we hang out with this group whom we call brothers and sisters. I tried counting how many times in a day we talk but my finger got tired of scrolling so much.. We have a lot of inside jokes and joke about the stupidest stuff... Im always on her "11:11" snapchat story thing, and we share and listen to each other's songs and we send new moves to each other and ask for each other's opinions.. but I can't help but feel.. even though she said she "kinda likes me" that she could maybe mean more than that.. Maybe I'm just so far in the friend zone my head started thinking this way.. In the party she continuously talked about me with her friends (male and female), she also told me to pay attention to a song I shared with her while it was playing, and changed her earring for the ones I gave her. Girls try to be particular about punctuation and crap, especially as they get older. Friendships are not easy to come by these days. She makes me feel like I am somebody. Me and this girl have been really good friends for a while (We're both High School students as well), and we talk all the time. I am just confused when I can see that he has been on social media but will take 12-24+ hours to respond. From the few times she has initiated the convo, she asked if I liked some music after changing my profile pic. I've even sent him some weird stuff out of the blue and he cool with it. She texts me everyday and she likes to start hello first. We text everyday; In the morning she says gm and asks me what I'm doing, then after school starts talking with me and even at night we talk.. a lot. I can't say something nice to a friend? If she's talking a lot to you, she wants you to open up. Shoot! My Facebook back-to-back feed with one guy in particular has YouTube videos, "likes" on statuses, little inside jokes here and there, and sometimes even conversations on other people's profiles. He asks if he may have accidentally spotted you, just to start a conversation. There’s a girl in my highschool I’ve fell For and a week after I met her she would sent message text that she knew where I was and I asked how and she said,”cause I’m a stalker and I’m stalking you” and I said lol but she would text me everyday when I got in the bus but she stays like half an hour longer at the school then I do but she would always text me and say plain and simply the word hi. Also I told her that I like her but she didn’t say “sorry I only like you as a friend” or something like that she said “ok, don’t be scared, there is no problem with that” then she hugged me. One time a tornado touched down where I was at and he heard about it and I didn't have my phone with me and he texted me twice wondering if I was inside or not and I didnt text back in like 6 minutes and he went crazy. I also went to this to make sure I'm not sending the wrong signs to people. marks frequently, emojis and text faces somewhat frequently, cares about how I am/feel and says that he is glad I haven't gotten sick of him yet haha. I have no reason to not believe her. I have been talking to this guy for about two months now. He isn't playing mind games and has no problem sending two or more messages at once. Is he playfully teasing or is he being mean? Answer: Literally, that could mean anything. I'm going for this :D, Friendzoned, or she could change her mind. And it will naturally come up. But recently she takes long to answer me like an hour each text and then respond very poorly? I think she cares about me, maybe as a friend or just in politeness. Because I told her how I feel and she said she likes me but nows a bad time because she's recently single. That's where you go from here. plz help xd, I like this girl and she never initiates texts but she replys every time like in 5 or ten minutes. Right after that conversation was over she asked if I could come to her birthday party. He may talk about personal details such as family, a job problem, etc. That it isn't exactly easy to see her date. I’ve know her for about 6 years and at this point we’ve been having a full blown affair for over a year now. Everytime we get much closer and more personal he'll address as 'sister'. If it keeps being consistent for a long period of time, there is likely some amount of interest. He calls me by my nickname and smiles really big when he is with me or sees me. i asked her what gem she wanted then when i came home i asked her if she wanted me to send her a pic of the gift, i teased her by sending her a pic of the box. Seriously guys can be friends with girls and not like them. Plz bro tell me more things to know that my besty love me or not. These things are circumstantial. I’ve asked a few times if I was bothering him and he replies No, it’s ok. She always reply me at late night also. I told him that I do like him but love and like has difference and that we sud give time to each other before jumping into this virtual relationship. I really like him but m having trust issues over him. The more you talk, hang out, the more she will open up. Yet we still text and sends me things and wants my opinion. All the signs that had been stated above is true. Do cute gestures for her. Hell of drug-fuelled orgies & sex with Hef left me suicidal, says ex-bunny. Any help? after i left the event he said that he saw me and i told him as well. Noto 4: I used to text her like every week and then I stopped because she went cold. Answer: If anything it means he thinks of you in a positive way. We mostly talk about random things. Clingy comes off as not taking care of business. He refers to something from a long time ago. I think she is genuinely curious about you. I have once had a crush on him but I got over him but I still blush when i say his name. He may immediately come to your rescue. We spent a lot of texts finding out a lot of common interests about each other. And here were at present day. Going on about a broken heart after 2-3 weeks of dating is really intense. Hello there. What if he said "ur addicted to something" and i said "im addicted to what?" He refrains from using "LOL." What do you think? What does it really mean? I think we both like each other. If you need his assistance, he doesn't delay to offer help. If she writes to you talking about her day, she likes the attention you give her and she wants to open up to you. I met him on tinder and we have never met face to face before. She started contact again but was still cold so I was very carefull texting her. Lately she’s been texting me more than usual, she’s the one initiating the conversation and responds quite fast, although she stops repliying if I try to keep the conversation going. She facetimed me 2 days in a row. If she compliments your strong arms, shoulders, or how you hug, she's trying to find a nice way to say she likes when you touch her. If she texts you on and off throughout an entire day, that is indicative...on both your parts. Entertaining. If there's an overabundance of smileys, exclamation marks, and overall excitement, that's also an positive sign. I'm not sure what was the exact blunder you made with this woman initially. If someone texts you every day, that means they think positively of you. Andrea is a freelance writer. She's being flustered around you, so I think she has a little crush. He may ask for your help on something that he is not particularly skilled at handling. Does she like me. Answer: Consistency is king. I gave her some earring of my own design. He acts like he likes both of us so i’m assuming he does. Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on April 03, 2017: I think if she is talking to you a lot, even if not initiating, you are probably in good shape. Farkle Minkus is a main character in Girl Meets World.1 He is the son of Stuart Minkus and Jennifer Bassett from Boy Meets World, and a best friend of Riley Matthews, Maya Hart, Lucas Friar, and Zay Babineaux. I usually don't recommend it and try to push people to find something else that's better suited and gives you everything you really want. If her texts become less excited, she may find the relationship less exciting. BUT, she also told me that she was hanging out with 3 guy she met at her work, but she isn’t interested in any of them. I maybe #2, but you know the frog #2 was the one who survived (Two Frogs in the Milk). The more of them, the higher the likelihood he digs you. She said She's here for me no matter what happens. She will have an assortment of nicknames for you. Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on September 26, 2017: She likes you. He sends you a long text about how wonderful you are when he knows you've had a terrible day. Tessa is a dedicated student, dutiful daughter, and loyal girlfriend to her high school sweetheart. Women drop hints about what they want to do with you. You could possibly have the wrong number, or he changed his number. So after the semester ended I sent him a message. Does he mean what he is saying or does he mean something else? She said I love it. I thought it a bit strange. If she texts you a compliment, she might be thinking of you and missing you. Also, the blunder wasn't totally my fault. I was getting sick of all these last-minute invitations, especially for late-night meetings. late night calls until 2am. I looked on a site and it says people with ADHD find it hard to get a relationship so I will just have to see what happens. Once a week? I've been texting this guy for 2 weeks.